The truth is, we have what we want already.
Your struggle is your strength. If you can resist becoming negative, bitter or hopeless, in time, your struggle will give you everything.
You give life to your problems with your words. If you really want change, then begin to use your words to give life to solutions.
What you talk about you anchor yourself to, so if you want to change your life — change your dialogue.
Make a truce with your inner-voice and speak ever so kindly and respectfully of yourself.
Choose thoughts that give you the emotions of feeling alive and excited about life.
Understand and challenge your personal narrative. Narratives become choices and actions — which become your life.
Make sure your ritual is not a daily prayer for failure through negative self-talk, ruminations, and gossip.
Believing in your own inner-beauty as a wondrous and unique being will begin to shift your perspectives about the world from cynicism to reverence.
The way to begin to truly see beauty in yourself is to begin to see beauty in all of life, and to realize you are connected to life, and that you are a part of life's great beauty.