If you make a big life-change it may literally shatter those around you because they can only accept and "love" you "their way."
People often want to "understand" others to "know their place" for strategic self-positioning, which is ultimately about control and safeguarding their advantage.
When you reserve the right to total contradiction, you reserve the self-acceptance to be human.
You are allowed to be inconsistent, contradictory and unbound by conventions such as sanity, intelligence or making sense.
You are an amorphous being and can change your views, opinions, ideas, and beliefs at will and as frequently as you desire.
You can say things that are completely wrong and still be a part of a legitimate dialogue.
Being 'smart' is a total spectrum of behaviors; it is about balance — not just intellect.
Don't let consistency be used against your holistic being and full-spectrum intelligence.
Consistency has been weaponized.
Don't allow people to control you with the consistency trap.
