Quit looking for the answers outside of yourself.
Rather than communicating blame, communicate your standards for proper future treatment.
If you set a clear standard for yourself; for how you wish to be treated — people will take note.
Even when something is not your fault, toxic blame has no place in your life. Focus on your own empowerment and healing.
Blame anchors us into the past; a place we cannot change. Acceptance frees us to the future.
People who blame are always looking to "get out" of something, but like quicksand, the more they struggle the more they are captive.
Taking personal responsibility is not about being "responsible" — it is about seeing your truth and evolving.
Empowerment is never about blame; it is about taking personal responsibility.
You think that if you blame, you will then be free of those problems, but blame cements you to your problems.
Until you stop blaming and become positively self-critical you are not going to move forward.