A good place to begin, is to forgive yourself for judging in the first place.
When we constantly meditate on another's faults, it may be because we are neglecting our own unhealed wounds.
When we hold-on to someone's imperfections we become emotionally pair-bonded to their maladies.
When we judge and agonize over another's faults, we become attached to their imbalance and sickness.
When we refuse to forgive someone, we deeply jeopardize our own well-being. When we condemn others we condemn ourselves.
Forgiveness is about your peace of mind. When you don't forgive, you are the one who suffers.
Forgive for yourself and for the peace it will bring to your pain.
Your past is like a bag of bricks; set it down and walk away. Quit collecting every painful word, memory, and mistake. Collect hope.
You are so much more than your mistakes.
You are not your mistakes, and your mistakes are not you.
