When you reach out to those you need to forgive, it is you that will be touched and healed.
Forgiveness, no matter your motive, is a dynamic of mutual healing.
Through forgiveness you can be free of the tragedies and pain in other people's failures.
Forgiveness can help you to be sane.
If you try to hold people to your standard of conduct you will go mad with disappointment and grief.
Forgiveness is another way of saying, "I need to mind my own business."
A good place to begin, is to forgive yourself for judging in the first place.
When we constantly meditate on another's faults, it may be because we are neglecting our own unhealed wounds.
When we hold-on to someone's imperfections we become emotionally pair-bonded to their maladies.
When we judge and agonize over another's faults, we become attached to their imbalance and sickness.
