Real spiritually is getting rid of the bs in your life.
Everyone may deserve love, but not everyone deserves your love.
The power is in balancing selfishness and caring.
You are not responsible for other people's happiness, and they are not responsible for yours!
Hold your healthy boundaries. Let their frustration instruct them.
Be selfish and take good care of you first. When you are your best, you can best help others.
You have the final word for what you accept in life. Set clear expectations and boundaries, and don't be afraid to enforce them.
Some people can ONLY interface with you through your problems. Get rid of those people.
Consider the possibility of healthy boundaries without struggle. Unyielding, yet calm. Strong, yet kind.
We ultimately allow the treatment we believe we deserve. If you want more love, then start by truly believing you deserve it.