We only allow the treatment we believe we deserve.
Some people just don't want to be happy, and nothing may ever make them happy. Your unhappiness could be merely because you refuse to accept their unhappiness.
If you are negative, unsupportive, a trash-talker, a gossiper, a nay-saying ninny, a doubt-whisper, or dream saboteur, you are likely going to live a very, very small life. Parents, spouses and friends who are guilty of this — heed this warning — in the long run, you will end-up left behind and resented. If you can't be trusted with someone's hopes and dreams, you shouldn't be trusted at all.
Sometimes the best way to defeat someone negative is to let time do the hard work of instructing them.
Real spiritually is getting rid of the bs in your life.
Everyone may deserve love, but not everyone deserves your love.
The power is in balancing selfishness and caring.
You are not responsible for other people's happiness, and they are not responsible for yours!
Hold your healthy boundaries. Let their frustration instruct them.
Be selfish and take good care of you first. When you are your best, you can best help others.