You have the final word for what you accept in life. Set clear expectations and boundaries, and don't be afraid to enforce them.
Some people can ONLY interface with you through your problems. Get rid of those people.
Consider the possibility of healthy boundaries without struggle. Unyielding, yet calm. Strong, yet kind.
We ultimately allow the treatment we believe we deserve. If you want more love, then start by truly believing you deserve it.
Endless amounts of love and hate are available to you from others; the defining question of your life is what you let in.
Love is your infinite space of vast expansion, not someone's little box you live in, until you die.
Never give-up, and be relentless — but also with boundaries, endings, and closures.
When teaching someone a boundary, they learn less from the enforcement of the boundary, and more from the way the boundary is established.
You best teach people about healthy boundaries by you enforcing your healthy boundaries on them.
People will always separate themselves from what they do not trust. If you want to be close to someone — protect the trust.